Monday, January 26, 2009

Will the drama ever end?

I swear I am so tired of getting messages from Myspace pages of fake people who sit around & try 2 make others people's lives a living hell!

It's like it never ends anymore! My life use to be so normal, well atleast more normal than it has been hear lately! Every since our sons biological family has come back into the picture this has not stopped! It does for a few months then something again!

I want to scream & block them but they keep making up new pages with others pictures! It's really annoying when I read they write that I'm not my sons real Mom & he will hate me when he's older

It's a fact that almost all kids hate their moms at one point in time, (Mine has already said it at age 6 & I went into the bathroom & cried), but how am I not his "Real" mom? Am I a fake person so they think?

That's just weird & it pisses me off b/c I have been his mom for 3 & 1/2 years now, just b/c someone comes back into his life & tried 2 play Mommy for a few months until they get bored doesn't make them a mom,

being a mom is the one who is there for their child, who holds them & hugs them & tucks them into bed, who checks closets & under the bed for monsters.

So anyways, that's my current annoyance in my life!

Thursday, January 8, 2009

Sometimes I get tired of "playing nice"

So my son is adopted as I wrote before. I for the most part get along with his birth family, but sometimes I get so aggravated by his birth family!
They say they want to still be in his life, yet they make him promises & then don't keep them! Like his birth mom said she was sending him a Christmas present, we waited & checked the mail every other day & they only 2 people from his birth family who sent anything was one of his birth Uncle's sent him a letter about himself & a few pics,, and his great grandma on his birth mom's side sent a card.
So I called his birth mom & she said she sent it out on Christmas eve, weeks pass no nothing.
So I called again, (Not about the gift but because he wanted to talk 2 his 1/2 sister) & she said "Oh the package came back & our dog ripped it open & ate the toy."

It just makes me mad because I send the 2 kids she has birthdays cards & money or gifts for birthdays & Christmas cards & presents!

And she has 2! Whom I am not related to, but I do it because they are my sons half siblings by birth!
But it gets real annoying when I'm trying to keep contact & nobody else trys, yet if I stop contact then they all talk crap & spread rumors about me. And then the threats normally start!

So any help or advise?